You’ve probably seen them before, maybe didn’t think twice about it—it was a penny or two on a gravestone, in the sunshine. Maybe it was a dime. A quarter. You figured someone visited it irresponsibly, or on a whim. But there’s a whole layered tradition behind it, especially if you find yourself walking through a military cemetery. These aren’t just coins dropped off by accident, every coin left was specifically intended. And every coin left of any value has its own specific meaning.
The act of leaving coins is an entirely ancient one. Where the meaning behind it comes from varies from person to person. Some say ancient. Some might go back to Vietnam war when political discourse was heated and some veterans wanted to honor their fallen friends without drawing attention to drawing up a note or drawing ire from the neighborhood. So they left a coin. Unbeknownst to the forester. No flowers. Either way: I was there. I remembered you.
The act morphed into something, whether it be the penny you left is important. But if you were to learn this, yourself, you would never look at those coins the same way.
Pennies: “I Remember You”
Pennies: that’s probably the most common. And easiest. If you place a penny on the gravestone, you do it for the sake of saying “I was here.” Your presence was known. You read the name, You recognized a life. You may not have know the deceased-whomever they are-but their not forgotten, Just small. Well, I guess. But it does. And for families. All the one cent has given them- families of the fallen- gives them peace. Someone came, Someone was here, Someone remembered.
Nickel: “We Served Together”
Nickel- that’s a saving-grace layer. A nickel means you came from boot camp besides. They had a boot camp experience. They probably laughed about how stupid were to cut down on running. Probably got each other sick out from both whiners chow lines and slept in the same porches. Maybe they might’ve even buried their boot camp experience of strength right in the red clay. Maybe even found a fear or anxiety, a common apprehension about a burdensome 2 minutes that was taught to them by design.
They’re were service members next to each other, and they were service members- on formation day, before medals, before losses.
