Older generations grew up in contexts where strict discipline was considered a form of love. Current generations tend to prioritize emotional dialogue and the validation of feelings.
Romance
When these perspectives clash, arguments or discomfort can arise. If these issues aren't handled with mutual respect, visits begin to decrease and the relationship cools.
The practical factor: time, proximity and daily support
In real life, emotional closeness also depends on practical factors.
Whoever helps with daily care, picks up the child from school, or provides support in emergencies naturally becomes an indispensable figure. It's not just a matter of affection, but of constant presence.
When a grandmother lives far away or cannot participate in the daily routine, she needs to compensate for that distance with other forms of sustained emotional connection.
